Have been told you have PCOS — or maybe you were told you might have it and that was kind of where the conversation stopped? If so, this post is for you.
And if you have tried everything: the low carb approach, keto, high protein, extra cardio, maybe years on birth control, maybe metformin — and the weight still will not move — this is especially for you.
Because the advice you keep getting — just lose weight, just cut your carbs, just exercise more — is not wrong because those things do not matter. It is missing the why. When we skip over the why, we send you home with a to-do list your body literally cannot execute the way it is supposed to. When it does not work, you blame yourself.
I do not want that for you anymore. Because there is always a reason. And when we can find it, everything starts to make more sense.
PCOS Is Now PMOS
Before we get into the body piece, something happened recently in the medical world that deserves a moment.
PCOS — Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome — has officially been renamed PMOS, which stands for Polyendocrine Metabolic Ovarian Syndrome.
Finally.
Because the old name was always a little misleading. It pointed directly at the ovaries and implied that cysts were the primary driver of symptoms. But so many women with this condition do not have cysts at all. They have weight that will not move, irregular cycles, blood sugar chaos, brain fog, skin and hair changes.
The name change to PMOS matters because it finally starts to acknowledge what I have seen in my practice for years: this is a metabolic condition. It is so much bigger than the ovaries. For the women who have always known something was off — who always felt like the diagnosis did not quite capture the full picture of what they were living — this is a step toward being seen and finding real solutions.
What Is Actually Happening Inside Your Body with PMOS
When I work with clients who have PMOS, I see three primary drivers that are almost always present and almost always connected. Blood sugar instability. Inflammation. And gut dysbiosis. Understanding how these three things talk to each other is the key to understanding why weight loss feels impossible — and why standard advice keeps missing the mark.
Blood Sugar Instability and Insulin Resistance
Blood sugar is the foundation of everything when it comes to PMOS.
In a body without PMOS, insulin does its job. You eat, blood sugar rises, insulin comes in, glucose gets used for energy, and everybody is happy. In a body with PMOS, there is an insulin resistance piece happening. Insulin shows up but the body just does not respond to it the way it should. Glucose keeps floating around in the bloodstream longer than it is supposed to, and your body keeps pumping out more and more insulin trying to compensate.
Here is where it gets important. That excess insulin signals your ovaries and adrenal glands to produce more androgens — testosterone and DHEA. And when your androgens go up, that is when everything starts to feel like it is working against you. The weight that will not move no matter what you do. Irregular cycles. Skin changes. Hair changes. Bloating. All of it.
So when someone tells you to just cut your carbs and the weight will come off — what they are missing is that your blood sugar is not behaving that way because of what you are eating. It is behaving that way because of how your body is responding to insulin. That is a different problem. It needs a different solution.
Inflammation: The Primary Driver Nobody Talks About
Elevated androgens and ongoing blood sugar instability are incredibly inflammatory to the body.
Inflammation is not just a buzzword. When I see it on a Dutch test, I see it as the primary driver of why a woman with PMOS cannot lose weight. Inflammation tells your body that it is not safe. It is a stress response. And a body that does not feel safe is a body that will hold on to every single thing it has. It will not release weight. It will not regulate hormones. It will protect itself the only way it knows how.
Most women with PMOS have never been told that inflammation is a significant part of their picture. They have been told about blood sugar, maybe. They have been told about androgens, maybe. But nobody has connected those dots and said: this is a chronic inflammatory state inside of your body and that is a big piece of why weight loss feels impossible.
Gut Dysbiosis: The Missing Piece
You cannot talk about PMOS without talking about the gut — and yet in a traditional doctor’s office, there is rarely time or space to address it.
Those elevated androgens do not just affect your cycle and your weight. They directly disrupt the balance of bacteria in your gut. When gut bacteria is imbalanced — which I call gut dysbiosis — the gut lining starts to become compromised. You may have heard this called leaky gut. The intestinal lining becomes more permeable than it should be, and particles from food start getting through into areas of the body that are supposed to be sterile. Your immune system goes into overdrive responding to things that should not be there.
That immune response creates more inflammation. And now you have a loop: elevated androgens disrupt the gut, the gut creates more inflammation, inflammation drives more blood sugar instability, blood sugar instability drives more androgens. Around and around it goes. The PMOS never actually gets managed because you do not know where to put your energy to heal one thing that makes healing everything else easier.
That is something I say in my practice over and over again. If we focus on the one thing in this whole picture that is the primary driver — the thing creating the most problems but that is also the most accessible to address — everything else starts to become more manageable. You do not have to tackle all of it at once. You just have to start in the right place.
Why Low Carb and Carnivore Are Temporary Fixes
I want to address this directly because I understand why it sounds like the right move.
If you have been told you have blood sugar instability, cutting carbs makes complete sense on the surface. Going low carb or carnivore can actually give some temporary relief — especially if your gut is struggling, because you are removing fiber and some of the foods that were creating symptoms. When you feel good going carnivore, that is actually a red flag that your gut is very unwell and cannot properly break down fiber and diverse foods.
But here is what happens down the road. You have deprived your body of crucial nutrients and the gut bacteria of what it actually needs to thrive. Good gut bacteria still needs fiber. It needs a diverse food group to function. When you strip all of that away, you create a whole new set of problems: adrenal fatigue, additional hormonal imbalances, nutritional deficiencies. You traded one problem for another.
Your nutrition needs to support your hormones, not punish your body. Strategic, balanced nutrition that gives your gut what it needs, supports your liver and detoxification, and keeps your blood sugar stable without stripping everything away — that is a very different approach than just cutting carbs. And it is the approach that actually moves the needle.
What the Dutch Test Shows for a Woman with PMOS
This is where the Dutch test changes everything.
When I run a Dutch test on a client with PMOS, what I am typically seeing is a combination of elevated androgens, poor detoxification patterns, and significant inflammation markers. And I want to explain what poor detoxification means because it often gets overlooked.
Your liver is responsible for clearing your hormones — including estrogen and androgens. When your liver is not detoxing efficiently, those hormones do not get cleared the way they should. They get reabsorbed and keep cycling back through. So even if we address androgen production, if your body still cannot clear them properly, you are going to keep experiencing symptoms.
On a Dutch test, we can actually see that. We can see what is being produced and what is actually being cleared. That is the story. That is the difference between a Dutch test and a standard serum lab draw.
A standard blood draw gives you one number. It tells you what is available in your blood at that moment. It does not show you what your body is doing with your hormones. It does not show your detox pathways, your inflammation picture, your cortisol pattern, or how your gut and liver are functioning. That is exactly why so many women with PMOS have been told their labs look fine — because on a basic lab draw, they can.
When a client sees her Dutch test results for the first time — the inflammation, the androgen picture, the detox pattern all laid out together — it is often the first time in years she has a reason. Not just a number. An actual starting point. That is the validation she has been looking for, sometimes for years or even decades.
How to manage PMOS using the DUTCH test results
Let us come back to where we started. Just lose weight. Just exercise more. Just go low carb.
Now that you understand what is actually driving these symptoms — the insulin resistance pushing androgens up, the inflammation putting your body in full protection mode, the gut dysbiosis feeding the whole cycle — you can see why that advice misses the mark. It is not that movement does not matter or that nutrition does not matter. It is that we are asking a body that is already overwhelmed to do more, and it simply cannot.
The woman who is white-knuckling a low calorie diet right now trying to prevent weight gain: eating less is not the answer. Your body is already operating in a state of stress and inflammation. Restriction adds to that. It tells your nervous system that resources are scarce, and a body that believes resources are scarce is going to hold on to everything it has. You are not failing. You brought a knife to a gunfight.
What she actually needs is a foundation:
Nutrition that supports the body rather than restricts it. Strategic, balanced nutrition that stabilizes blood sugar, supports liver detoxification, and gives the gut what it needs to heal — without stripping away the nutrients her body actually requires.
Strategic movement focused on building muscle. Muscle is your metabolic foundation. Without it, you are perpetuating a cycle that is already breaking it down. This is not about burning calories. It is about building and maintaining the tissue that supports your metabolism long-term.
Nervous system support. A dysregulated nervous system perpetuates every single one of these patterns. Your cortisol picture matters, and addressing it is a non-negotiable part of the foundation.
Targeted supplementation based on actual results. Not a generic supplement protocol, but specific support based on what your Dutch test is showing your body needs right now to bridge the gap from where you are to where you want to be.
And most importantly: data. Knowing what is actually driving your symptoms so you can stop guessing and start building a protocol that is specifically designed for your body.
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How to Get Started
If you are reading this and nodding your head, the Complete Hormone Healing Package is exactly what this post is about.
We start with a Dutch test to get your full hormonal picture — your androgens, your estrogen, your progesterone, your cortisol patterns, your detox pathways, your nutritional organic acids, your inflammation markers. The whole story in one lab.
From there, I build you a completely individualized protocol based on your actual results. This is never cookie cutter. It is built around your body, your data, your story. The protocol typically runs about 12 weeks and includes strategic nutrition, a muscle-building workout plan, nervous system work, and targeted supplementation — plus three follow-up visits with me either online or in person at my office in Tea, South Dakota.
If you want to talk it through first, I would love that. A free 20-minute consultation is the perfect starting point. I will review your health history and make sure this is the right fit for you.
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You have always deserved answers that actually fit your experience. Let’s go find them.
Listen to the full episode on the Body-Led by Design podcast — Episode 178: PMOS, Weight Loss Resistance & the Dutch Test.
